ive been troubled lately by some advice i read a while back:
the moment you settle for less than you deserve, you deserve what you settled for.
its hard to say if i think this is entirely true. but it nags at me, the way that things do when your brain or your heart is working something out. the way that it wont let itself slip entirely out of your peripheral thinking.
i look at certain situations in my life... life is all about choices. and happiness isnt getting what you want; its wanting what you have.
relationships are complicated.
